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 Hello! I am Terrence P. McAtamney, and this is my wife of 21 years Yon. Here we are lounging on the couch after a major Thanksgiving meal last year.

I developed "Husbands Love Your Wife" while working as a Bible teacher at my church back in 1993. There is nothing special about this series, in fact you will find others teaching just about the same thing in many other venues. That's no problem, the more the merrier.

My only concern is that husbands know that they can love their wives in a very special and intimate way. One which will enrich not only their wives, but themselves as well. While I developed this series in a Christian church, I have left out the overt references to one particular faith so to broaden the appeal as much as possible. In reality the points I bring out here are truly universal and I hope that no matter what the faith, or if you have no faith at at, they will be helpful.

With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce I would say we have a problem. Marriage isn't a "hit or miss" business venture. It is the joining of two persons for a lifetime commitment. Through many years of marriage counseling, and my own experience within my own marriage I have observed a few things that I feel are helpful in allowing men women to learn how to tend to the needs of the other. I know that if these are met many of the problems that lead to the counseling office and the divorce court will disappear. Although I have not at all saying that doesn't mean that there will never be another problem, it will help you TWO cope with life's problems as ONE.

"Marriage is that relation between man and woman in which the independence is equal, the dependence mutual, and the obligation reciprocal"
- Louis K. Anspache