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Dear John: My boyfriend of six years broke up with me and began seeing someone else, but he's cheating on that relationship -- with me. I ask him if we will someday get back together, and he says that right now, he doesn't know. I know we still love each other, so what exactly does it mean when he says he doesn't know? Is that a "yes" or "no"? -- Confused in Los Angeles Dear Confused: It means just that: He doesn't know, and he's not going to make a commitment right now, so don't read more into it than you should. Besides, why should he? He's got the best of both relationships -- with your tacit approval. My advice: If you really want a committed, exclusive relationship, extract yourself from him until he is willing to give you what you want. (c) 2000, John Gray Inc. Distributed by the Los Angeles Times Syndicate   (You can contact John Gray at AskJohnGray@MarsVenus.com. All questions answered are kept anonymous and are paraphrased.)

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